5 Tips for Being Consistently Consistent


We see, use, and hear the above quote all the time. While we know consistency is the key to success or accomplishment in sport (or life), it is also the hardest to master, especially this time of the year. Acquisition and mastery of a skill, a technique, or a lifestyle change will require you to be a consistent athlete. So how do we stay consistent with being consistent? Here are a few tips to help you stay on your game through the holidays and feeling confident.

TIP #1: Make a conscious decision to remain consistent.

Say out loud to yourself, “I am committed to remaining consistent each day in my goal. I am doing this!” Notice the statement is in the present tense. This technique commands your subconscious mind to act now, not later. Consistent actions require consistent thinking, specifically consistent thoughts that you are and will remain consistent.


 TIP #2: Revise your concept of time.

The only time you have is RIGHT NOW. Later on, next week, next month, or next year is only a concept or thought in your mind. Tomorrow is not here, next week, month, or next year is not here. Right now is here.  The point of power is always in the present moment and all the anxieties or worries about later on are not happening now. So let go of thinking, “I have to be disciplined and consistent all day, week, month, or year,” TO “I am disciplined in this moment. Right now is the only moment I need to pay attention to. I am only required to be consistent and disciplined in this moment.” Be in the NOW.


TIP #3: Have a plan. Know your objective.

The definition of a “plan” is:A scheme, program, or method worked out beforehand for the accomplishment of an objective:” A plan is in place so that you don’t have to do the thinking before hand or in the moment. Preparation is consistency’s wonderful cousin!

You must have a plan to be successful, even if it’s a daily plan. For example, you could prepare your meals for the week or get a nutrition consult for a meal plan. Pack your gym clothes the night before and write in your planner what your workouts will be for the week. Buy and implement TriMarni Coaching and Nutrition 5-week Triathlon Transition Plan to build base and strength.

It is imperative that you have a plan so that you know where to direct your actions, thoughts, effort, and time. It must be a plan that you want. It must be in line with your values and your hearts desire. The more emotionally invested you are in your plan, the more you will remain committed, the higher your chances are for success.


TIP #4: Remember that feelings and thoughts are temporary and subjective.

Any negative feeling or thought that could intrude on you being consistent is temporary. It is an illusion. In the moment it feels very powerful, but in an hour, 10 minutes, or tomorrow you could feel very different. Don’t let temporary illusions of stress, anxieties, worry, or insecurity derail you from your plan. In moments like these it’s critical that you push through the discomfort and JUST DO IT! Execute. Do the workout, eat the healthier option, or make the time. Remind yourself how you will feel after your workout, or after you have conquered the moment. It will be worth it.


 TIP #5: Do one thing at a time. Be in the present moment.

In my mindfulness skills training we call this doing one thing mindfully. It is being fully and 100% present in your moment. Allow your mind and body to be present and engaged. When you find yourself distracted or your mind wandering you bring it back to full attention of your moment. For example, if you are working on foot position, pedal stroke, freestyle catch, elbow angle, etc. you are fully and acutely tuned in to that and only that aspect, nothing more and nothing less. This concept is why mantras and self-talk are powerful. They bring your attention back to the constructive action at hand and in the moment.


BONUS TIP: A great concept that I came across, thanks to one of my Wattie Ink teammates Chris Hague, is thinking of this time as “pre-season” versus “off-season.” Off-season sometimes implies letting everything go, permission to be in excess, or dare I say it, an excuse to not be as disciplined as we normally would be. “Pre-season” has come to mean, for me, preparation, transition, build up rather than let go. It gives me a sense of focus and empowerment. Try it out and see if it works for you my fellow triathlete’s. Obviously, for my runners/trial runners, short course swimmers, skiers, basketball players, and footballers we are still in season so this may work for you later:)

When all else fails and the above tips do not work, then use the foolproof guide below to help you stay consistent.

 If you are “not feeling like it”…do it any way.

If you are sad…do it any way.

If you are busy…do it any way.

If you are tired…do it any way.

If you are feeling good…do it any way.

If you are “too stressed”…do it any way.

If you are unmotivated…do it any way.

If you are on vacation…do it any way.

If you are unsure…do it any way.

If you find yourself making excuses…do it any way.


No matter what trust that you can and will stay consistent. Be patient one moment at a time. You are an amazing person with valuable gifts to offer the world, but first master the gift of giving the best to yourself- through being consistent with your hearts desire. Once you stay consistent with yourself, every thing else falls into place.

If you need some support in identifying goals, creating a plan, or needing support to stay consistent feel free to contact me and we can set up an individual plan geared towards staying consistent and motivated. As always my wonderful people…SHINE ON and OWN IT! Happy Holidays Peeps!

-Dr. G

Published by

Dr. Gloria Petruzzelli

Dr. Petruzzelli is a clinical sport psychologist, triathlete, and certified mindfulness meditation teacher located in Sacramento, California. She works with elite athletes and sports teams across the country. She is a competitive athlete and enjoys practicing yoga, spending time with her family, and traveling.

41 thoughts on “5 Tips for Being Consistently Consistent

  1. Dr G,,I would like help in staying consistent and setting goa in my life!Please help!

  2. This article just changed my life. As I was reading, I began to cry on the elliptical. I realized that I haven’t been consistent in the past because I’m more committed to others than myself. My health, my goals, my success always became last on the totem pole. God bless you! I am forever changed!

  3. this is the best consistency post I
    have come across, good work and keep it up man
    I will do it anyway

  4. I m little bit confuse now a days and I feel that due to lack of consistency in my life I have many problems and I m unsuccessful person . But I need help of some to develop my habit .

  5. This is the best motivating article i ever read.
    Thank you sir your article bring extrem energy in me.
    I commit to be consistent.

  6. I love the list of when the above does not work and you don’t feel like it, “do it anyway!”
    If you are sad, “do it anyway!,” it reminds me of when I lived in an apartment and had a dog. It kept me thin for years because rain or shine, motivated or not, ” I walked the dog anyway.” Thanks for the reminder-I have a few goals that I need a plan of action and will remind myself to, “do it anyway!

  7. I found this article very helpful. I’ve been struggling with staying consistent, connected and committed with everything that’s important to me. I’m a pre physician assistant student, I struggle with studying or preparing for class. I have a goal to lose 40 pounds before May and I’ve never truly stayed determined. I know what I want and have an idea of what needs to be done to get there but some how I’m not getting things done. Any insight would be appreciated.

  8. Awesome.Help me create a plan for myself.It has been quite hard to adhere to my plans.As a result i’ve wasted so much time and opportunities

  9. Great post. I was checking constantly this weblog and I’m inspired!
    Extremely useful info specifically the ultimate phase 🙂 I
    handle such info a lot. I used to be seeking this particular info for a long
    time. Thank you and best of luck.

  10. Thank you so much sir for these empowering tips..just amazing!!!

    To your success,

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